Sometimes, In This Space, I Write About My Childhood
Someone who sometimes reads this blog told me tonight she'd like to read more about my childhood. She also raised the excellent point that there is a great deal of shooting from the hip criticizing in the Jewish blogosphere (not by me). She (and I agree) is not pleased with a certain disrespect and an attitude that implies that all opinions are equally valid and anyone one can critique anyone else with no regard to rank, integrity, etc.
I am more interested in the issue of my childhood than in how other bloggers blog. One post that comes to mind is the 3 part series about my Hebrew name and the ramifications in my life via my unusual name , Natah (1, 2, 3).
I just started searching for other past posts that reference my childhood and found these five questions and answers which include a little bit of juice from that time of my life.
Then there's the slide, which I've written about several times. The first time I mentioned it was exactly four years ago, here. (The story is that I got in trouble for climbing up a slide, but I was only doing what felt safe to me. This comes up a lot in life and blogging.) (I also wrote about the slide incident here and in response to a comment from kind Pearl I wrote up a memory of being tripped by a counselor. This other story pops into my mind on various occasion on both a literal and metaphorical level).
In this post about Teshuva, I wonder who reads this - something I often do, and tie in the slide story (I am enjoying seeing all the comments in each of these posts). In this post I tell the slide story again and say it happened in second grade, rather than first. This raises the question of memory and how stories change from time to time. In my school we were in one building for first and second and another for 3-8. All I recall for sure is that this happened in the old building. Here, I wrote about man's inhumanity about man and said I was doing so in my own, up the slide way. The comments on this one are really nice.
Here, I recall an incident from youth involving a misbehaving classmate, and write some other memories too. In this post I write about sundry things (maybe I'll do that again here someday), including my childhood friend Quigley. In this piece, Life, Like Rain, A Masterpiece, I remember the game Masterpiece, which my family played together many times, when I was a boy.
Here, I write about feeling like I've lived more than one life within my life (and Maayan and Jack say they've felt that way too). In this post (which sparked a classic Kishke - RR dialogue) I recall what I used to say as my parents put me to bed as a child.
Speaking of going to bed...

5 Comments:
Your childhood stories reminded me of one of mine:
My sisters and I were with a babysitter one day. I was about four, the eldest. My sister began coughing. The babysitter ran in and asked if she's okay. I said she was choking, b/c in my 4-year-old brain, the word for coughing was choking. Understandably, the babysitter went nuts, until she realized it was only a cough. She then asked me why I said choking when it was coughing, but I couldn't explain.
That reminds me of this - When I was a little kid it dawned on me that when someone sneezes you say gezundheitdt (sp?) but when someone coughs you don't say anything. I decided something should be done about this. When people coughed I said, "Cough well." This didn't really go over or catch on.
I just noticed the mention of the Kishke-rr dialogue. Thanks! I had forgotten that.
Why are sneezes different than coughs? Maybe it's something to do with the Chazal that it ancient times, people would not sicken and die, but would remain in good health till the end, when their life would exit with a sneeze (or something along those lines; don't remember exactly). That could be why a sneeze especially requires a blessing of good health.
I once saw a similar thing in the commentary on Midrash Tanchuma, which says that beis din would give a condemned person a drink of strong wine before his execution, so that he would be befuddled and suffer less. The commentary there claims that this is why we say "L'Chaim" when drinking spirits, to emphasize that this drink is for life, not for death.
yes thanks from me too! i had forgotten about those classic kishke/rr dialogues too. i really enjoyed this post and reading all of the old links!
i always had heard that when you sneeze you lose a minute of your life...therefore you say G-d bless to counteract that?
thanks kishke and glad you saw new things in your chazarah here. good points re; the sneeze, i was thinking that too. the l'chaim idea is something i never heard before. veeeeery interesting. by the way i have a friend serving 30 to lechayim at san quentin.
thanks for the thanks and the kudos rr. i never heard that take on the sneeze, also veeeery interesting.
thank you both for reading, commenting, appreciating, and dialogue-ing
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