Saturday, June 25, 2011

GVAMGB

I'm not sure who I write for here, or why I write here, now - or at all. I just got home from Shabbos deep in New Jersey, in a sweet town. I feel a cold coming on and have been trying to ward it off. My dear old friend was kind enough to drive me home (and also to have picked me up yesterday). I owe email responses and have plenty of things to do. And yet I feel the blog bug.

I'm in a questioning mood. I bought recently. It's written in sentences and paragraphs and chapters, but the twist is that every line ends - legitimately (or not, you be the judge) in a question mark. What do you think of that?

How much do most people want to be listened to? Did you ever hear the story about a gossip columnist who wrote about what a great conversationalist Dale Carnegie was (after all he did was let her go on and on)? Do people relish the chance to be listened to because it is so rare? Why is it so rare? Do you think most spouses talk to and listen to each other? How does it change as children come into the picture (and eventually - to some extent leave the picture, or at least the nest)? Do most people listen? Do you long to be listened to? Do you notice when you're talking for a while and someone else is trying to get their turn? Are conversations to be lived and forgotten or relished and remembered?

What's the point of school? Is the goal different in different classes? What's the point of a test?

I wanted this post to be longer, but I feel like it's time for bed.

Good night and G-d Bless.

6 Comments:

Blogger JWI said...

I have been called many things, but once upon a time, one of the nicest things was... Neil's roommate

June 26, 2011 at 11:27 AM  
Blogger Ira The Starman of Mitzpe Ramon said...

I must be a great conversationalist, because I hate talking about myself. I usually get the other person to do the talking. But that's just in a social conversation. If the topic is something else, I have a hard time letting go of the topic. So I am both the best and worst conversationalist. See, I've already said too much about myself, so I'll stop.

June 26, 2011 at 11:33 AM  
Blogger Alan Brill said...

You asked on FB for a greeting on your blog. HI.

June 26, 2011 at 12:39 PM  
Blogger rabbi neil fleischmann said...

Wow, I'm blogging like it's 2005!

Zach - Aw! Good times, once upon a time. Thanks for stopping by.

Ira - You are a good listener and also an excellent raconteur and a great host.

Alan - Thanks for the hi, an honor to have you here. How's life?

June 26, 2011 at 9:24 PM  
Blogger Alan Brill said...

Neil,
You should post the title of your blog posts to FB and Twitter so people know they are happening. Now everything needs to be interconnected.
I wish you would review each article in
IMAGE when each issue comes out.

June 26, 2011 at 9:57 PM  
Blogger rabbi neil fleischmann said...

Thanks Alan, somehow I missed this till now. Wonder if you'll find my comment. I've been hesitant w/Twitter and with a Blackberry. I have started linking on Facebook now, even though I missed this comment.

I could write more about Image for whomever is interested. Let's see there's you, and...

I would Facebook/tag this to you but I don't think I know how - in fact I'm pretty sure I don't.

Probably my favorite thing in this issue of Image is "A Conversation With Marilyn Nelson."

June 29, 2011 at 11:44 PM  

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